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The wrong people can cost you more than clients, according to hairdressers who have gone through it. When BTC shared a video from educator @traviss.noelsy about the importance of who you're choosing to stand by, the response was immediate. The message was simple: The people around you influence the way you think, work and grow. To paraphrase Traviss' caption, "Some hairstylists build. Others blame." The post hit because every hairdresser knows the type: the person who drains the room, blames everyone else and turns every solution into another problem. Here’s what BTC’s community of real hairdressers had to say. Breakroom = Brokeroom One of the most-liked comments on the post came from dawn_clark, who summed up the conversation perfectly: "Breakroom = Brokeroom. Stay hustling ladies and gents." — dawn_clark Others quickly added their own spin. "Breakroom = Blackhole." — tammy.krouse.77 "Backroom = just waiting for the busy bus to arrive." — elevated_hair_vt While the comments were playful, the message behind them was serious. For salon owners and stylists, the issue was not taking breaks. It was what happens when a salon culture becomes centered around complaints, gossip and excuses instead of growth and accountability. Several commenters shared experiences working in environments where negativity spread quickly. "Just left a salon with the absolute worst environment I've ever worked in. One bad apple will always ruin the bunch." — caitbinnie Others said creating the right environment starts by being intentional about who joins the team. Growth Mindset Vs. Victim Mindset Matters Beyond the discussion about negativity, many hairdressers focused on the influence other people have on mindset, confidence and success. "The people around you really do shape your mindset, confidence and growth." — thesalonsocialsystem "Show me your friends and I will show you your future." — joyce.e.koh "Fixed vs growth mindset matters." — manehabitsalon "We never ever stop learning in this industry. Own your mistakes and learn from them. Knowledge is power." — amypridigehairdressing Many stylists agreed that talent alone isn't enough. The people around you can either reinforce positive habits or keep you stuck in the same patterns. "The sooner people figure this out the sooner they'll be more successful! This is something I preach all the time. It's something I learned early on in my career and I swear by it." — kolorwithkarley For these stylists, success comes from focusing on solutions, taking ownership and continuing to learn. It's a mindset that echoes the message that started the entire conversation: Some hairstylists build. Others blame. "I Became The Bad Apple" Then came the comment that shifted the conversation from pointing fingers to looking inward. "Victimhood mentality is draining just to listen to. If someone starts complaining about clients they have in their chair or about how slow they are when they really shouldn't be I don't engage, I typically end the conversation quickly. They aren't looking for solutions, just addicted to the negative talk. I remember years ago the moment I became the bad apple in the salon because I thought the ownership change was bad. I made a plan quietly to leave and I left before I corrupted anyone else's opinion." — the.hair.purist The comment resonated because it challenged the idea that negativity is always someone else's problem. Instead, it highlighted self-awareness as one of the most valuable skills a stylist can develop. "That victim part you [Traviss] stated is a very valuable life gem." — rechicbeauty Sometimes growth starts with evaluating the people around you. Sometimes it starts with evaluating yourself. Culture Starts At The Top Salon owners were quick to point out that culture doesn't happen by accident. "Believe it or not the owner of the salon has a lot to do with that. They either nip it quickly and don't allow it or they add to it." — mindfulstylist Others shared just how damaging the wrong team dynamic can be. "Literally this. I wanted to close my salon when I had the wrong people working for me." — shelbyslayshair And for some owners, protecting salon culture starts long before someone is hired. "THIS. When we were building our salon we decided to have an open concept 'break room.' Luckily the team we have are booked and busy or not so lucky and we hired the type 1 of stylists. Love this message, love your passion to inspire people." — natalieruzgis The message from owners was consistent: culture isn't accidental. It's built, protected and reinforced every day. This Isn't Just A Hair Lesson As the discussion continued, many commenters pointed out that the lesson applies far beyond the salon. "For 25 years I've been calling it pigeons versus eagles." — martinocartier "This is a LIFE lesson not just hair styling. Work hard, play hard. You sink or you swim." — charlestonhairguy Whether they called it negative energy, victim mentality or simply the wrong people in the room, BTC's community agreed on one thing: The people you stand by can shape the hairdresser you become. See the original post on @behindthechair_com's Instagram and read through every comment below:             View this post on Instagram                         A post shared by behindthechair.com (@behindthechair_com)